Can you feel it? The Sacred Pause in the turn of the wheel of the year?

At Solstice time in the Northern Hemisphere, we experience the shortest day and longest night. We enter a portal of potential. A space to compost what has come before. A space to dream into the future yet to be.

So often at...

Men – it’s not your fault.

• No-one gave you a proper education in sex, pleasure and intimacy.
• No-one offered you a loving and honouring sexual initiation.
• No-one showed you how to show up as a man. In life or in sex.
• And very few seem to celebrate potency of men and masculinity.

In...

If you follow me on Facebook or Instagram, then you might have noticed that these days I'm mostly talking about Grief and Darkness.

The necessity of tending to our Grief in these tumultuous times.
The invitation to drop into deep rest and befriend Darkness as a practice.

What do Grief and Darkness...

There has never been a time like this to be alive. There has never been a more urgent need to pause, rest and reflect.

In a world that seems to be spiralling ever more wildly into chaos, it is essential to stay in our centre. Stay resourced. Stay present.

As the season changes and we move towards...

Over the last weeks, I’ve been settling into my new home in North Dorset (close to the Osho Leela Personal Development Centre for those who know it!).

As I tune into the offerings I wish to share from this space, I feel a call to return to my first and deepest love – working with...

Here's something that doesn't often get talked about in the world of spirituality, wellbeing and personal growth... When investing in a workshop or training, part of what you are paying for is the soothed and stable nervous system of the facilitator.

It takes a lot to facilitate a space for...

One of the great losses in the heteronormative standard story of sex is that female sexuality is considered to be complex and mysterious whilst male sexuality is considered to be simple and obvious*

What might be closer to "truth" is that there is something profoundly mysterious about the...

Summer has come to Somerset and recently we have been enjoying the delights of having folks here for Sanctuary Retreats.

The home space of “Heaven on Earth HQ” is truly a sanctuary from the bustle and busy-ness of life. The sacred is deeply woven into the everyday.

This is not just a...

Today we are celebrating seven years of Tantra Massage Training. Since 2016, hundreds of sensual explorers have discovered the beauty and potency of neo-Tantra through bodywork and ritual. That’s seven years of embodied awakening through embracing Eros.

The number seven appears in many...

The Short Version:
Our commitment to offering safer spaces. The Tantra Massage Training Code of Conduct and Incident Reporting Form.

The Long Version:
In the last weeks, new waves of allegations of abuse, gaslighting and harm have hit the world of Tantra and Sacred Sexuality. I read the stories...

Imagine you wanted to enhance your wellbeing or get super fit, what would you do? Perhaps go to a gym, hire an expert personal trainer, watch videos, or ask advice from friends. You wouldn’t imagine that it would happen overnight. You know that it’s an ongoing practice.

So why is it...

On a regular basis we receive applications from folks who wish to offer Tantric massage professionally. Sadly many of those folks are muddling Tantra with a primarily erotic or sexual service. Alarmingly a number state that they simply “fancy a career change” without ever having...