Erotic Education for Men
Where do you go to really learn about sex and intimacy?
You’re expected to just know—but how? No one ever taught you.
Porn gives you a script, but when you try it in real life, it falls flat.
You ask her what she likes, but she struggles to explain.
Or worse, she only tells you what not to do, leaving you feeling even more lost.

There’s anxiety, maybe even shame, around getting it wrong.
Confusion about what a woman really wants.
And beneath it all, a longing—for deeper intimacy, more connection, and much, much more pleasure.
What if there was another way?
Let’s get in the sandbox together…
In the world of IT, a sandbox is where things are developed and tested before going live. But before that, the sandbox was where you played as a kid—exploring, experimenting, getting messy.
This is your chance to do the same with sex and intimacy.
Here, you can get the sex education you never had.
Ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask.
Receive guidance and feedback.
Even have permission to make “mistakes” so that you can discover what really works for you.
No pressure. No judgment.
Just real learning, real growth, and real pleasure.
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... and talk about Sex
Many men tell me that having an open, honest conversation with a woman about sexuality, pleasure, and desire is one of the most inspiring and liberating aspects of our time together.
After more than a decade working in the field of sexuality and intimacy, there’s very little I haven’t already seen or heard.
I create a warm, welcoming space where it’s safe to explore, to be curious, and to discover who you truly are as a sexual and sensual being.
It’s an honour to be your erotic guide.

“Gayatri really is very special. It’s not just the amazing breadth of skills she has but the great care and attention with which she uses them. I went to edges that I’ve never been to but at no point did this feel unsafe. I felt like I could go there because I had so much trust in Gayatri's ability to help me navigate there safely and always with laughter. There were such profounds moments for me.” - Andrew

"You have had an enormous influence on my life after years of darkness. You reminded me how to be a man again. Such a special woman. I have been so fortunate to have benefitted from your love and sensuality. My mojo is now sky high and my new relationship blossoming. I can’t thank you enough." - John

"Time spent with Gayatri leaves a deep impression. She creates a welcoming, nurturing and safe space which allowed me to go to places unknown and unexplored. I knew I was in the hands of someone who cared, an intuitive guide and also a fellow traveller. She is completely committed to being a partner to one’s own journey. I loved my time with her." - Paul
With erotic education you can...
- Become more confident and assured in yourself as a man and a lover
- (Re) discover intimacy and why it’s so much more than the physical
- Explore the art of giving and receiving
- Learn the principles of generous erotic touch
- Learn about boundaries through the verbal (consent conversation) and non-verbal (reading the signs)
- Deepen in presence and expand in atunement
- Discover the mysteries of female arousal, and why it’s not so mysterious after all
- Take a tour of the female body and receive the sex education you never had
- Learn about blocks to female pleasure and why it matters
- Expand your erotic repertoire and experience more pleasure

Practicalities
Erotic Education sessions are offered from a studio temple space in Yate, Bristol (BS37).
It is recommended that you first experience a Tantra massage or Ignite Your Erotic Life session as a pre-requisite.
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Investment
Journey over 4 Sessions - £1,100 (2 hours per session)
Full Day - £1,100 (8 hours, including lunch)
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Travelling from afar?
The Full Day experience can also be split over two days: one session in the afternoon of the first day and the other on the morning of the second.Â
This is a popular option for folks travelling from afar. I can offer recommendations of local accommodation for your overnight stay to create your own bespoke retreat.