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What if everything you had learned about s*x was wrong? Nov 14, 2023

Men – it’s not your fault.

  • No-one gave you a proper education in sex, pleasure and intimacy.
  • No-one offered you a loving and honouring sexual initiation.
  • No-one showed you how to show up as a man. In life or in sex.
  • And very few seem to celebrate potency of men and masculinity.

In...

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Men ā€“ I love you Oct 01, 2023

Over the last weeks, I’ve been settling into my new home in North Dorset (close to the Osho Leela Personal Development Centre for those who know it!).

As I tune into the offerings I wish to share from this space, I feel a call to return to my first and deepest love – working with...

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Holding space for male vulnerability May 31, 2023

One of the great losses in the heteronormative standard story of sex is that female sexuality is considered to be complex and mysterious whilst male sexuality is considered to be simple and obvious*

What might be closer to "truth" is that there is something profoundly mysterious about the...

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