Firstly take a good look at my website and find out more about my offerings. Then…. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT…. check in with yourself to see how you’re feeling.

If you sense that “Yes, finally!” you have found what you have been seeking… that elusive someone who can really guide you towards the sexual and sensual experiences you have longed for – someone with deep wisdom and knowledge yet seems approachable and accessible – then get in touch.

If you are bored or baffled by my website, then I’m not the one for you.

If it feels right (or intriguing or inspiring), the next step is to book in for an Exploration Call.

The more you can share about yourself, the more we can know that there is a good fit. It’s important that there is an alignment between what you are seeking and what I offer.

The next step will be for us to have a Zoom call where I can find out more about you and answer any questions you might have.

At that point we will know if we vibe with one another and it feels good to work together with no obligation on either side.

If I believe that someone else is more suited to your needs or requirements, then I will usually make a referral so that you get the support or experience that best serves you.

Sessions are offered from a studio temple space in Yate, Bristol (BS37).

Tantra massage sessions are offered to men seeking sexual awakening and erotic enlightenment through embodiment. You can read more on the Tantra massage page.

You do not require a partner to work with me.

In fact, learning about sexuality, touch and intimacy when you are single is the BEST time.

It gives you the opportunity to discover what you really want and what feels good to you without the influence of another. It's time for you.

It depends on what you are seeking to experience and explore.

If you are in partnership then I recommend that your partner is in consent with your choice to work with me, and at some point it might also be valuable for them to attend with you.

A common situation that I observe, is a man seeking my support for a marriage/partnership where sex has dwindled. They imagine that if they just learned the right techniques, they would get more sex and all would be well. That rarely works. If there are underlying issues, resentments, and disagreements in your relationship then these needs to be addressed in a mature and responsible way. In which case I recommend talking therapy first.

Working with me is not a surrogate for your intimate relationship.

If you are seeking to understand yourself and your sexuality better in a wholistic way, then I am open to having a conversation with you about the best next step on your journey.

I support women in stepping into Sacred Sexuality work through training and mentoring.

I do not offer Tantra massage sessions to women; only men.

If you are seeking support with you own healing journey with sexuality, then I can make recommendations of other practitioners best suited to your needs.

I believe in working within my scope of professional practice, realm of lived experience and zone of joyful genius.

The particular strand of sexuality of which I have the greatest wisdom and expertise is the dynamics and energetics between heterosexually oriented men and women. Therefore, that is the area in which I focus my offerings.

In other words - I stay in my lane.

I am an advocate for each person’s choice of sexual expression and believe that there is a rich tapestry of experience that we collectively weave.

If you are specifically seeking to explore beyond heterosexuality and CISgender, then I can make recommendations of colleagues with that lived experience and have walked that similar path so that they can guide you on that journey.

My sessions are predominantly for men and people who identify as male seeking to explore themselves and their masculinity in relation to women.

I welcome trans men and have access to supervision with a trans-male psychotherapist.

I am an advocate for each person’s choice of sexual expression and believe that there is a rich tapestry of experience that we collectively weave.

If you are specifically seeking to explore beyond heterosexuality and CISgender, then I can make recommendations of colleagues with that lived experience and have walked that similar path so that they can guide you on that journey.

I am a member of The Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexologists and work under the ASIS Code of Ethics. I have professional insurance with BGI.uk

You can read the Code of Conduct for my work here.

Currently there is no recognised qualification or standard to become a Tantric practitioner. Sadly this means that many people are offering services under the name “Tantric” with little understanding of the true depth and potential of the path.

If you are interested in offering Tantra Massage as a profession, I provide personalised guidance and support for your journey.

Here are the basic pre-requisites before considering a professional training:

• Personal exploration of sexuality (minimum 1 year)
• Personal exploration on a path of personal development / spiritual awareness / embodiment (minimum two to three years)
• Bodywork qualification (such as ITEC diploma)

Models for massage training are sourced from experienced, known and trusted members of my community. They have previously invested in training with me; meaning that they have advanced understanding of their sexual energy and are able to give solid feedback to the person learning. Anything less out of integrity.

It sounds like ‘Guy-a-tree’ with the emphasis in the middle. The name is Sanskrit and Gayatri is a Goddess in the Hindu pantheon. I received this name on my spiritual path as part of my initiation.